sync cibuildwheel test env with uv (#2913)

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# Rationale for this change
Follow up to #2912

CI still fails with

https://github.com/apache/iceberg-python/actions/runs/21004478697/job/60383069033
```
Error: cibuildwheel: Command ['C:\\Users\\runneradmin\\AppData\\Local\\Temp\\cibw-run-0tbpuziz\\cp310-win_amd64\\venv-test\\Scripts\\pip.EXE', 'install', 'pytest==7.4.2', 'moto==5.0.1', 'pytest-lazy-fixture==0.6.3', 'sqlalchemy>=2.0.18,<3'] failed with code 1. 

Error: Process completed with exit code 1.
```

This PR fixes syncs the env with uv so we dont need to explicitly
specify the deps here

## Are these changes tested?
Yes 
https://github.com/apache/iceberg-python/actions/runs/21007310527

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Author: kevinjqliu

.github/workflows/pypi-build-artifacts.yml

@@ -70,8 +70,8 @@ jobs:
           # Ignore 32 bit architectures
           CIBW_ARCHS: "auto64"
           CIBW_PROJECT_REQUIRES_PYTHON: ">=3.10,<3.14"
-          CIBW_TEST_REQUIRES: "pytest==7.4.2 moto==5.0.1 pytest-lazy-fixture==0.6.3 sqlalchemy>=2.0.18,<3"
-          CIBW_TEST_COMMAND: "pytest {project}/tests/avro/test_decoder.py"
+          CIBW_BEFORE_TEST: "uv sync --directory {project} --only-group dev --no-install-project"
+          CIBW_TEST_COMMAND: "uv run --directory {project} pytest tests/avro/test_decoder.py"
           # Ignore tests for pypy since not all dependencies are compiled for it
           # and would require a local rust build chain
           CIBW_TEST_SKIP: "pp*"

.github/workflows/svn-build-artifacts.yml

@@ -65,8 +65,8 @@ jobs:
           # Ignore 32 bit architectures
           CIBW_ARCHS: "auto64"
           CIBW_PROJECT_REQUIRES_PYTHON: ">=3.10,<3.14"
-          CIBW_TEST_REQUIRES: "pytest==7.4.2 moto==5.0.1 pytest-lazy-fixture==0.6.3 sqlalchemy>=2.0.18,<3"
-          CIBW_TEST_COMMAND: "pytest {project}/tests/avro/test_decoder.py"
+          CIBW_BEFORE_TEST: "uv sync --directory {project} --only-group dev --no-install-project"
+          CIBW_TEST_COMMAND: "uv run --directory {project} pytest tests/avro/test_decoder.py"
           # Ignore tests for pypy since not all dependencies are compiled for it
           # and would require a local rust build chain
           CIBW_TEST_SKIP: "pp*"

pyproject.toml

@@ -118,6 +118,7 @@ dev = [
     "mypy-boto3-glue>=1.28.18",
     "mypy-boto3-dynamodb>=1.28.18",
     "pyarrow-stubs>=20.0.0.20251107", # Remove when pyarrow >= 23.0.0 https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/47609
+    "sqlalchemy>=2.0.18,<3",
 ]
 # for mkdocs
 docs = [