PYTHON-5662 - Add support for server selection's deprioritized servers to all topologies

[NoahStapp]

Changes in this PR

Align PyMongo's server selection process with the updated algorithm in DRIVERS-3344. The summary of these changes are:

• Enable server deprioritization on all topologies instead of only sharded.
• Filter out deprioritized servers before applying read/write preferences.

Test Plan

Expanded the existing server selection unit tests to include deprioritization tests.

Checklist

Checklist for Author

• Did you update the changelog (if necessary)?
• Is there test coverage?
• Is any followup work tracked in a JIRA ticket? If so, add link(s).

Checklist for Reviewer

• Does the title of the PR reference a JIRA Ticket?
• Do you fully understand the implementation? (Would you be comfortable explaining how this code works to someone else?)
• Is all relevant documentation (README or docstring) updated?

[blink1073]

LGTM assuming nothing changes in the spec PR

[caseyclements]

LGTM conditional on currently running resync patch.

[blink1073]

Failures seem to be related to the GitHub outage, it is failing to pull and install mongo-orchestration

[NoahStapp]

evergreen retry