feat: sync source code with nodejs/node

[aduh95]

Currently the code is maintained in two different repos (nodejs/node and nodejs/ncrypto) which are slightly diverging. This PR takes the nodejs/node version as source of truth (I copied the file over, and reverted only the changes that were behind a #ifndef pre-compiler flag).

[jasnell]

@aduh95 ... Just wanted to get a sense of what this PR is working towards. Want to have context for a review. This is used by workers and bun also so need to know if there are significant changes that would require attention there also

[aduh95]

The end goal would be to be able to build it as a shared lib and use it in node (in the test-shared workflow), and make node depend on this repo. The current state is that I'm able to build it as a shared lib, but static build seems broken from the looks of CI, I haven't investigated further.
I've updated the OP with my plan

[aduh95]

I've opened #19, #20, and #21 to split this PR in reviewable chunks. Once they have landed, I can rebase this one to just sync the ncrypto stuff with the version on nodejs/node

[aduh95]

@jasnell @anonrig what would be the next steps here? To me it seems that it should be: land this, cut a new release, switch nodejs/node to depend on this repo. wdyt?

[anonrig]

Sounds good to me. Can you rebase?

[anonrig]

cc @npaun

[aduh95]

What's the status here? It'd be helpful for me to have an overview what are the blockers so I can make an estimate of how long before the effort is complete

[anonrig]

I was waiting for a review from @jasnell. He's probably on a flight to US right now.